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posted by Velvet 372 days ago
Mums out there.. I'm just feeling a little down. My son is going off to Uni and I'm trying to cope with all sorts of emotions and etc etc... I know it will be good for him and I'm really glad that he is going.. but the mother in me is breaking down every five minutes or so, just thinking about him leaving. I just needed to "verbalise" it here.


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posted by smog 372 days ago (edited 372 days ago)
Is that woman speak for "I need a shag"?

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posted by Mr Benn 372 days ago

Could be worse V, he could be joining the Foreign Legion or something










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posted by Velvet 372 days ago
Nope but that made me laugh, thanks smog!

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posted by Velvet 372 days ago
grrr Mr Benn, but yes, I'm glad he's only going to Uni and not to something worse.

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posted by Mr Benn 372 days ago (edited 372 days ago)

Yes, my mum went doo-lally when I said I wantes to join the Marines

*actually, I joined first and then told her........










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posted by Load Toad 372 days ago
I thought my mum was crying when I left home. But it were not tears of sadness.......

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posted by tiger lily 372 days ago
Vel, I am going through the similar situation these days.

It is not easy, not easy at all....I guess a mom is never ready for her kids to leave home even though I had been anticipating the situation and prepared for it.

All I can say to myself is that : I have no regrets, even if they don't look back I am not going to feel sorry because I have done all I can for them, and now they are fully grown and take wings......I should be glad that my load is off.
Most of all , I have raised a pair of decent , good, happy people.

I also think that : they are not mine, they belong to themselves and the world. I have only completed my karma and finished my deed, the rest is a bonus.
All of a sudden , I am free again . Isn't that what I always wanted ?



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posted by Shadowblade 372 days ago
Think Spartans' Agoge, Velvet. He is on his path of becoming a real man.....(ok, you may want to forget the part about a battle which wiped out almost the entire male population in Sparta...)

Some mofos always try to ice skate uphill....
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posted by Velvet 372 days ago
Thanks Auntie Tily and Shadowblade...

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posted by tiger lily 372 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by Shadowblade
Think Spartans' Agoge, Velvet. He is on his path of becoming a real man.....(ok, you may want to forget the part about a battle which wiped out almost the entire male population in Sparta...)


Oh... I have watched the whole series of Spartans....it's inhumane .

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posted by Lola 372 days ago
V, swear to god, no one but a mum will understand. Hang in there, sweetie.

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posted by tiger lily 372 days ago
Cos they come from our belly.... wright eh ?

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posted by Velvet 372 days ago
Hear hear Lola!

TLily, also from our heart and soul.

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posted by tiger lily 372 days ago
wah


thought I was strong .....

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posted by AKA 372 days ago
Spartan is such sweet sorrow, tis true

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posted by shazza 372 days ago
Geeezzzzz stop that women!

Vel, book yourself a nice long holiday with yer hubby right after! Consider yerselves free now!


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posted by Mr Benn 372 days ago

I honestly didn't think you were old enough to have a son that was ready for Uni V










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posted by the doodler 372 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by Mr Benn

Could be worse V, he could be joining the Foreign Legion or something



My brother did join the French Foreign Legion.

He never told us either!


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posted by shazza 372 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by Mr Benn

Yes, my mum went doo-lally when I said I wantes to join the Marines



You do know now that you didn't have to join them to have fun in Wanchai don't you?


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posted by AKA 372 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by the doodler
quote:
Originally posted by Mr Benn

Could be worse V, he could be joining the Foreign Legion or something



My brother did join the French Foreign Legion.

He never told us either!


maybe he forgot?

Girls just wanna have pun
 
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