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| posted by asiangirl 319 days ago |
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I watched this series a few nights back thinking it was the most unrealistic thing that can ever happen to a man- living with 3 wives at the same time and having a total of 7 kids to support...that was until I read show's end-tag that polygamy is being practiced by 27%* of Americans today.
In this day and age, I would assume that a man would almost be hitting his head with a hammer by having just one family to support- forget about having three!
Has anyone else seen it?
*not too sure on the numerical figure
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| posted by adfundum 319 days ago |
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Not to mention having 3 sets of mothers in law in-laws..... 
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| posted by Load Toad 319 days ago |
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Given divorce rates in US / UK I'd think a fair proportion of blokes are supposed to be supporting several wives and multiple kids.
Except the ones that tried to avoid paying.
And remember children - in the eyes of the God Fellah - a marriage is for life not just until you get bored with the shagging.
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| posted by asiangirl 319 days ago |
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but in this scenario- he's actually living with 3 families at the same time... picture a long dining table with 3 wives and 7 kids- surely that's not normal... but, also not impossible
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| posted by catzeyez 319 days ago |
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How are the wives coping with each other?
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| posted by Gimpmask 319 days ago |
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he must be deaf.
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| posted by Lola 319 days ago (edited 319 days ago) |
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Why is this so surprising? Polygamy's not that rare.
Wasn't it common until not so long ago for men in mainland China to have multiple wives too? (Not taking into account married HK blokes who then take on mainland wives.)
And let's not forget that Muslims today are still also permitted four wives.
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| posted by asiangirl 319 days ago (edited 319 days ago) |
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well i just saw the 1st episode... wife #1 is a school teacher with 3 kids- the husband gets to spend the 1st night with her, she also had cancer and can't have kids anymore wife #2 is a spendthrift and the only one given a personal checking account to by the husband wife #3 is the youngest, she just gave birth and is always being left at home to take care of all the kids, also, she feels very insecure because she still has all that pregnancy fat
and all of them are just trying to be 'one big happy family'...
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| posted by asiangirl 319 days ago |
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whats weird is that polygamy is being practiced and most likely- will be accepted in highly developed countries... makes one think is this a regression of a society's value system- or just the opposite...
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| posted by Lola 319 days ago (edited 319 days ago) |
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If they're stupid enough to marry him ~ I am assuming they knew/know he's got other wives and pre-existing wives were informed of forthcoming wives ~ then good luck to 'em.
Mind you, it could be the ideal arrangement as you can just ship him off to one of the other suckers when you get tired of dealing with his god complex.
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| posted by AKA 319 days ago |
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isn't the guy in the show a mormon?
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| posted by asiangirl 319 days ago |
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polygamy in mormon society hasn't been practiced since the 1890's, but he is a member of an LDS type of group
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| posted by AKA 319 days ago |
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Oh I see
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| posted by Claire 319 days ago |
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quote: Originally posted by asiangirl polygamy in mormon society hasn't been practiced since the 1890's, but he is a member of an LDS type of group
I thought they went in for polygyny...
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| posted by The Cerne Abbas Giant 319 days ago |
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I must say this show sounds unspeakably tedious. It was only the 'HBO' part that made me curious. That said, HBO's Six Feet Under Season 1 has sat unwatched in my DVD drawer for four years.
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| posted by Lola 319 days ago |
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Oh, phew, I thought I was the only one I knew who hasn't the slightest interest in or inclination to watch that show...
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| posted by geraldo 319 days ago |
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funny enough ...
quote: Serge Régnier is a 47-year old Belgian with three wives and thirty children. In 1986 Régnier married Christine Wuest (who is now 38). They have fifteen children, between 19 years and 11 months old. A couple of years later, Christine’s homeless sister Karine Wuest (now 35 years old) came to live with the couple. Soon she fell in love with Serge. Christine consented in her husband taking her sister as a second wife. Serge and Karine have six children, between 10 years and 10 months old.
All that time, Serge had been meeting his former girlfriend Judith De Leenheer (now 38 years old). When Judith’s marriage broke up – which was not altogether surprising since all her children were Serge’s rather than her husband’s – Serge asked his two wives whether they would mind taking her in. They did not mind. Serge and Judith have nine children, between 18 years and 10 months old. They all live together in Serge’s house in Marcinelle, a town in Wallonia, the French-speaking South of Belgium.
The Belgians call Régnier, a stocky, balding man with a fringe of beard, the “Marcinelle bull.”
and then comes the scary part:
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Non-Belgians wonder perhaps how he provides for his large family. Here is the answer. Régnier applied for and received the status of an invalid from Wallonia's generous welfare authorities. He consequently receives a welfare check of over €1,000 a month. His three wives are all unemployed. Hence, they each get €800 in unemployment benefits. On top of this the family receives €4,000 in child allowances. This makes a grand total of more than €7,400 a month ($9,700 or £4,960) – all of it provided by Belgium’s taxpayers. All the money matters in the household are taken care of by Serge. His wives are only interested in children. They have told the press that they each hope to have another baby in 2007.
Indeed, last Tuesday the Belgian paper Gazet van Antwerpen wrote that there are marital problems in the Régnier household. His three wives complain that their husband is often away from home, while they do not know where he is. They suspect there is a fourth woman. “We are partners, friends. There is no jealousy here, at least not between us three,” they told the paper. But while four is a marriage, five is a crowd. The wives are also increasingly frustrated because Serge does not seem prepared to give them another baby yet. “Judith, Karine and I each want three more children,” says Christine. “So did Serge a few months ago, but suddenly no more. What must we make of that?” she asks. Régnier, however, denies he is cheating on his wives. “They will get their children, but not for the moment,” he says.
The wives are also cross because Régnier often withdraws into his room, locking the door. He is the only one to have a room of his own in the house. There he has a television set and a small fridge. The women complain he sits there watching football and drinking beer, while they cook, wash and iron and take care of the children. Régnier ignores their complaints, and tells the journalist: “I do not know whether you are married but if you have one wife you can imagine what it is like to have three.”
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| posted by Claire 319 days ago |
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