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seems all a bit wrong for the kid to me ? [ New Topic]
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posted by Paps of Jura 100 days ago




Thomas Beatie is a transgender male and he's 22 weeks pregnant. Thomas still has a vagina, but he's legally male. He shares his life with his legal wife, Nancy. Thomas gave a first person account to the Advocate on how he came to be pregnant with a baby girl.

Thomas writes, "Ten years ago, when Nancy and I became a couple, the idea of us having a child was more dream than plan. I always wanted to have children. However, due to severe endometriosis 20 years ago, Nancy had to undergo a hysterectomy and is unable to carry a child. But after the success of our custom screen-printing business and a move from Hawaii to the Pacific Northwest two years ago, the timing finally seemed right. I stopped taking my bimonthly testosterone injections. It had been roughly eight years since I had my last menstrual cycle, so this wasn’t a decision that I took lightly. My body regulated itself after about four months, and I didn’t have to take any exogenous estrogen, progesterone, or fertility drugs to aid my pregnancy."

One year and many doctors later, Thomas got pregnant with triplets, but the pregnancy was ectopic. He eventually lost his embryos and his right fallopian tube. His second pregnancy has been a success and he's due on July 3, 2008.

He said that not many people in their community know about his pregnancy. He said they have "begun experiencing opposition from people who are upset by our situation. Doctors have discriminated against us, turning us away due to their religious beliefs. Health care professionals have refused to call me by a male pronoun or recognize Nancy as my wife. Receptionists have laughed at us. Friends and family have been unsupportive; most of Nancy’s family doesn’t even know I’m transgender."



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posted by HKBloke 100 days ago
5 days too early


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posted by hkJay 100 days ago
You gotta be kiddin me! That's gonna be 1 confusificated sproggy!

But this is even MORE worrying methinks!

http://www.malepregnancy.com/science/index.shtml



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posted by Gimpmask 100 days ago
I don't think we needed any pictures.

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posted by Beer Boy 100 days ago
I can do pics like that, but everyone would say it's cause I is a fat fook

I take under performing to new lows...
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posted by geraldo 100 days ago
weirdo needs an urgent cricket bat treatment or two - that'll get a few things straight again


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posted by hkJay 100 days ago
Hasn't got a wicket or balls yet....but still batting for the other team....

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posted by AKA 100 days ago
yeah! lets kill the weirdo!
down with people doing things we dont like that make us feel uncomfortable!

yeah, yeah, yeah
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posted by hkJay 100 days ago
I don't feel uncomfortable with the physical doing of this - I feel sorry for the kid who has to deal with the strife caused by selfish parents. ....... "sorry son/daughter, to have put you through years of strife at school and elsewhere and caused you much emotional stress, but WE (by which I mean your mother and mother), really wanted a kid"

There again, you don't chose your natural parents - yet.

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posted by The Crone 100 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by AKA
yeah! lets kill the weirdo!
down with people doing things we dont like that make us feel uncomfortable!


So true, so sad.

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posted by The Crone 100 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by hkJay
I don't feel uncomfortable with the physical doing of this - I feel sorry for the kid who has to deal with the strife caused by selfish parents. ....... "sorry son/daughter, to have put you through years of strife at school and elsewhere and caused you much emotional stress, but WE (by which I mean your mother and mother), really wanted a kid"


Yes, that too


There again, you don't chose your natural parents - yet.

Well, I believe I chose my parents.

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posted by AKA 100 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by hkJay
I don't feel uncomfortable with the physical doing of this - I feel sorry for the kid who has to deal with the strife caused by selfish parents. ....... "sorry son/daughter, to have put you through years of strife at school and elsewhere and caused you much emotional stress, but WE (by which I mean your mother and mother), really wanted a kid"

There again, you don't chose your natural parents - yet.


computer says: b*****ks

If a child suffers emotional stress/strife at school just becuase his/her natural loving parents are different from the norm, that is most likely to be caused by societal intolerance (what's new)

Plenty of kids grow up with actual, rather than assumed, emotional stress because their "normal" parents are c**ts with no regard for their child's emotional well-being

Having said all that, the beard has to go - that's only acceptable if yer ma is Greek





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posted by hkJay 100 days ago
of course it's societal intolerance - if that's the way it goes, why add this extra issue onto the prospective parental c**t situation...there's enough strife already for kiddies to deal with without giving them extra societal stress because 'you' want to indulge in your own freedom rights...

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posted by Juno Watt 100 days ago
Yeah!

And I'd pull the bloomin' lever myself!


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posted by AKA 100 days ago
are freedom/rights an indulgence then?

or only if indulged by those who are different?


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posted by AKA 100 days ago
he looks a bit like the guy from everything but the girl

how bizarre

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posted by The Crone 100 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by hkJay
of course it's societal intolerance - if that's the way it goes, why add this extra issue onto the prospective parental c**t situation...there's enough strife already for kiddies to deal with without giving them extra societal stress because 'you' want to indulge in your own freedom rights...


This reminds me of the lady with the free roaming dog in DB. Does your love for your dog over ride the love for other people's well being? So many things to think about before any decision or as in many cases, non decision, but just doing 'whatever'.

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posted by AKA 100 days ago (edited 100 days ago)
I would like free roaming on my dog, last trip cost me an arm and a leg in call costs



yeah, yeah, yeah
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posted by EmilyBronte 100 days ago
So, get rid of all the bits that make you look like a woman, 'cos its emotionally upsetting for you to be one, but then take advantage of the ACTUAL bits about being a woman to be used to your advantage when you feel like it.


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posted by Juno Watt 100 days ago
Roaming on a dog and bone? Whatever next.


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posted by The Crone 100 days ago
quote:
Originally posted by AKA
I would like free roaming on my dog, last trip cost me an arm and a leg in call costs


You perv with the pipe!

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