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| posted by SCHippie2 698 days ago |
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lmopq- keymaker is simply saying tis better to be honest ( a good quality) about your wants then to be deceptive (a bad thing). All you have to do is find a guy who just honestly wants the things that you have in common and are looking for.
i for one would rather know how a person is in a relationship upfront than to find out how well they can use cloak and dagger tactics in a relationship to hide the truth. but then again thats just me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63XFJnk-Nzk
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| posted by keymaker 698 days ago |
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Originally posted by LMOPQ
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Originally posted by SCHippie2
well spoken keymaker
100% Disagree. And unacceptable!
I know you don't but it is why you struggle, why you keep searching and you can't find.
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All I want is love, cuddle, pamper, caring and relationship. Done.
I don't care whether you agree or not. If you are not willing to accept that men want different things, and you are not willing to compromise, and grow up, if you are not willing to accept that a real functional relationship is far from what you think. Well then my dear you are going to be stuck where you, you are going to repeat the same mistakes over and over, you are going to get the same type of guy time and time again and get the same results. The most tricky part of the problem you have is that you don't understand nor see the problem as it is a very elusive one.
All you see if relationships that don't work, guys that are such stars when you meet them after a while it all goes sour and you end up unhappy here pouring your heart out.
Well you have a choice my dear.
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| posted by LMOPQ 698 days ago |
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Originally posted by keymaker
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Originally posted by LMOPQ
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Originally posted by SCHippie2
well spoken keymaker
100% Disagree. And unacceptable!
I know you don't but it is why you struggle, why you keep searching and you can't find.
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Originally posted by LMOPQ
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All I want is love, cuddle, pamper, caring and relationship. Done.
I don't care whether you agree or not. If you are not willing to accept that men want different things, and you are not willing to compromise, and grow up, if you are not willing to accept that a real functional relationship is far from what you think. Well then my dear you are going to be stuck where you, you are going to repeat the same mistakes over and over, you are going to get the same type of guy time and time again and get the same results. The most tricky part of the problem you have is that you don't understand nor see the problem as it is a very elusive one.
All you see if relationships that don't work, guys that are such stars when you meet them after a while it all goes sour and you end up unhappy here pouring your heart out.
Well you have a choice my dear.
Already made a choice. Salsa Dance!
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| posted by LMOPQ 698 days ago |
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Got to go to the gym and shampoo my hair. I would be the most pretty girl on the dancing foyer later! Yo!
Bye. Keymaker and S..
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| posted by keymaker 698 days ago (edited 698 days ago) |
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Sure keep escaping... Millions of people have escaped before you to drugs, alcohol, sport, sex, tv, videogames, dancing, but NO ONE has ever go away or solved their problems by trying to escape.
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| posted by xtcxtc 698 days ago |
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Originally posted by keymaker
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Originally posted by LMOPQ
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Originally posted by SCHippie2
well spoken keymaker
100% Disagree. And unacceptable!
I know you don't but it is why you struggle, why you keep searching and you can't find.
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Originally posted by LMOPQ
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All I want is love, cuddle, pamper, caring and relationship. Done.
I don't care whether you agree or not. If you are not willing to accept that men want different things, and you are not willing to compromise, and grow up, if you are not willing to accept that a real functional relationship is far from what you think. Well then my dear you are going to be stuck where you, you are going to repeat the same mistakes over and over, you are going to get the same type of guy time and time again and get the same results. The most tricky part of the problem you have is that you don't understand nor see the problem as it is a very elusive one.
All you see if relationships that don't work, guys that are such stars when you meet them after a while it all goes sour and you end up unhappy here pouring your heart out.
Well you have a choice my dear.
you cannot change it, no matter what you explain to her.
the truth is that 90% of chinese are very possessive in relationships. quite a lot are possessive to the extreme. it's cultural thing i guess.
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| posted by keymaker 698 days ago (edited 698 days ago) |
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xtc, You are right that I can't change her all that I am pointing out that she has a choice. She can solve this, and it won't be by meeting the next guy.
xtc, Wrong, this is not a cultural thing. This problem exists world wide. I would say that 95% of people have this problem, however we all have it to a higher or lesser degree. In most people it is not visible until you are in a relationship with them. Even their friends will not notice. It becomes aparent when the person is suffering so much they cry for help, ask for people for a new source of happiness as every relationship sucks.
Why do I know this? Becase I Keymaker, was NO DIFFERENT to LMOPQ! Go on laugh.
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| posted by xtcxtc 698 days ago |
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hmm, but it's the reality. i'm not even saying it's wrong, just totally different perspective in some cases.
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| posted by keymaker 698 days ago |
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xtc, Another reality is that you don't seem to know how relationships work in other cultures and are claiming that this is unique to Chinese people.
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| posted by xtcxtc 698 days ago |
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in what exact other cultures i am so ignorant according to you then?
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| posted by keymaker 698 days ago |
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You tell me, you are telling me that this issue is a Chinese thing... I say it is a USA, UK, Italy, France, Germany, Japan, and the other 260 countries issue.
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| posted by xtcxtc 698 days ago |
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Here it's just much more obvious. That kind of childish behaviour. It's really a cultural thing.
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| posted by shazza 698 days ago |
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Nope. A lot of male dancers are very classy. They are not cheap.
They don't treat you like meat because they are gay. Seriously. When I use to go for lessons back in the UK, most of the guys that were good, neat, tidy, nice hair were gay and the girls confirmed it. Me and lads had to warm up with a few shots of vodka to losen up the legs.
keymaker, havent you noticed that the gay theory can only applies to british lads? many latinos can dance so well and they are yet straight. many brits do seem to feel funny about being well dressed and a good dancer as they might be classified as gay... very strange.
ps. amazing you guys care so much about cb's relationship problem... im so touched 
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| posted by Imd 698 days ago |
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i miss ya too, LMOPQ....
would luv to go salsa dance wif u
but better on fri or sat....
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| posted by keymaker 698 days ago |
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Originally posted by shazza
keymaker, havent you noticed that the gay theory can only applies to british lads? many latinos can dance so well and they are yet straight. many brits do seem to feel funny about being well dressed and a good dancer as they might be classified as gay... very strange.
I do agree with that. Any kind of guy that is a bit caring or or knows how to interact with women is labelled a puftah. But in my case it was the women that said, "yeah great to dance with but gay as f**k" "most of the good ones are gay". So I will trust the womens word on the issue.
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ps. amazing you guys care so much about cb's relationship problem... im so touched
Are we hiding well the fact that we just want to grope her boobs? 
Anyway I expect her to reject and dissagree with everything we wrote. It's normal. Writing about this stuff is as painful as shooting her in the gut. Las time we mentioned about the "disadvantage at relationships" she dissapeared for 2 days.
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| posted by shazza 698 days ago |
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keymaker, having dreams is good for yer mental health...
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| posted by Imd 698 days ago |
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gosh....i hope LMOPQ wont read this thread anymore
esp...." grope her boobs" 
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