Dating culture difference

[Spunky]

Is this true about HK's dating culture???

1) You must call everyday to report your whereabouts.
2) Not calling the other person for more than a day means that you don't love the other person anymore.
3) For blokes, saying 'I love you' means ****e. Flowers, but more preferably, diamonds, must be given to show your affection.
4) The more expensive the gift is, the more you love.
5) For girls, buying clothes for the bloke is appreciated.
6) It's not ok to go out with the opposite sex without the other's consent.
7) You're madly in love if you see each other everyday.
8) One person must be the dominatiing one and the other a submissive one that will listen to everything the other person say.

Western culture:
You aren't lovers until you've shagged.
Just because you shagged doesn't mean you're lovers.

[harley]

You aren't lovers until you've shagged.
Just because you shagged doesn't mean you're lovers.


... so very true ...

and just because you love someone ... doesn't mean you are in love ...

[green tea]

quote:Originally posted by harley
You aren't lovers until you've shagged.
Just because you shagged doesn't mean you're lovers.


... so very true ...

and just because you love someone ... doesn't mean you are in love ...

and just because you are in Love, doesn't mean you dont flirt with others...

[Leon]

..or yourself

[Spunky]

Nothing wrong with a little flirting, increases your confidence me finks.
The ones who can't handle a little innocent flirting are insecused IMO.

[bunthorne]

Fine, provided you're OK with your girl flirting with the guys she fancies.

[keymaker]

Dunno, I've been out with my share of screwed up Asian girls but I just don't think Spunkie's list is that good. Most of those are not good nor very accurate.

[asiangirl]

keymaker...be nice

[Natasha_e]

1) You must call everyday to report your whereabouts. (in a real solid relationship, I do call everyday to let him know i'm ok. not for "report" or "checking", just to let him know i'm ok)
2) Not calling the other person for more than a day means that you don't love the other person anymore. (not if he's busy at work, but certainly he still able to have a min to call me just to let me know he's ok. i think this calling thing we called "respect" and does apply with some "love" and "thinking of u" feeling)
3) For blokes, saying 'I love you' means ****e. Flowers, but more preferably, diamonds, must be given to show your affection. (can't judge by that, but i dun offer expensive gift to someone if he's nobody)
4) The more expensive the gift is, the more you love. (that's really depends how much "heart" he put on the gift. i still rember one of my ex cooked me b'fast in bed, at that time i did strongly felt he love me)
5) For girls, buying clothes for the bloke is appreciated. ( ?? again, if that's a solid relationship, i also shop men's section to e.g. tie, underwear.. , doesn't have to get him something only becos is b'day)

Spankie > in yr case u've lot of queries and seems u dun like it. maybe u just not that into her ?

You aren't lovers until you've shagged.
Just because you shagged doesn't mean you're lovers.

Totally agreed, and think it apply to every adult, every culture too
6) It's not ok to go out with the opposite sex without the other's consent.
7) You're madly in love if you see each other everyday.
8) One person must be the dominatiing one and the other a submissive one that will listen to everything the other person say

[Natasha_e]

6) no lar, most of my friends are male. this world our friends are either men or women. tell her tro shout up if she's not about about yr female friends
7) haha, the sex must be madly GREAT if u really want to see each other everyday
8) ?? we need a bf/gf, not a puppy i guess